there are a lot of things in life that can change your perspective on things. the loss of loved ones, the birth of new loved ones, career changes, relationships and friendships all shape who we are. lately, a string of events has changed my perspective on life. i don't consider that a bad thing. it is necessary to re-evaluate your life on a regular basis and make adjustments so you stay on track to achieve your goals.
for me, it is also necessary to make sure i'm surrounding myself with people who mean the best for me and want to see me succeed as much as i want to see them succeed. lately i've wondered if some of the people in my life want to be there. when you make up stuff to initiate conflict i have to wonder. i don't do drama. i know issues come up but pettiness and silliness are not my cup of tea. say what you mean. mean what you say. be quick to listen and slow to anger. and be ready to reconcile. you aren't always right. no one is always right. when you make a mistake, as i do all the time, admit it. be willing to apologize and mean it when you're wrong.
i just expect much more out of my relationships than some people seem willing to give. in light of that knowledge who knows what the future holds. either way, i will always be true to me and keep it 100 with everyone.
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